Child account and Ask to Buy notiffications not received
I see that this question has been asked many times here but the answer is always a link to this page If Ask to Buy isn't working but that page does not help me.
I gave my niece a iPhone 12 mini for new year and used my iPad Air to add her as a Family member for enabling Family share and creating an account for her. I have few issues with app installation and is making using the device extra annoying.
Whenever I install something on phone from app store I need to click ask to buy, and get a message that request has been sent to guardian for approval. Nothing comes up on iPad, and I went through entire device but cand find anything.
So then I need to use approval in person and login with my AppleID and then after lots of passcode inputs I then get a verification by code from iPad and then I can install the app. And need to do that in full every single app install.
Also when i try in-app purchase, I get an message in app that its sent request for approval but then I cant approve in person and popup just closes.
Focus is not turned on, Family share and Ask to Buy are turned on. Every solution I ever tried has not worked.
I dont own a Mac or any other apple device. I am thinking of installing MacOS on virtual machine so maybe then I can have more options.
(I have to say that Family LInk on Android is far more superior than this solution which does not work and have a lot options for child device control...and they all work).
Any hint for what I could try is highly appreciated.
Thank you and all have a happy NewYear
iPad Air (4th generation)