A software update is [NOT] required to connect iPhone - why the error
The official links and all the useless answers say "update", but an update has never actually been required for me EXCEPT when I first updated to from my old iPhone 7. I've had the latest version of Mojave or Ventura as well as the latest IOS version on whatever phone I own (now iPhone 14) and keep getting this error when the phone is first plugged in to the laptop, now a 2020 M1 Pro.
The phone always connects ok (one must click/approve "trust" requests) and my automatic backup takes place, as do the other bits including syncing my music. The only issue seems to be the bug in [all versions?] of MacOS where MDCrashReportTool must be forced to quit using Activity Monitor to get past "Step 3 - preparing..."
Shouldn't we call this error a bug?
MacBook Pro 13″