HELP!!!!! I NEED TO RECOVER PHOTOS AND VIDEOS FROM MY OLD IPHONE X BUT I FORGOT THE PASSWORD AND I DONT WANT TO LOSE ANYTHING

Regarding your data…

1. If you have an iCloud or iTunes latest backup, then there is nothing to worry about. Just restore from it, else...
2. If You have synced your data to iCloud, then what you will get back is what you have synced to iCloud and uploaded to iCloud Drive;
   1. The information that is synced and stored in iCloud, like Contacts, Calendars, Bookmarks, Mail*, Notes, Voice Memos, Messages*, shared photos, iCloud Photos*, Health data*, call history*, and files* you store in iCloud Drive.
   2. *-If you had turned on Messages in iCloud, iCloud Photos, Mail, Health data, call history under iCloud, and files you store in iCloud Drive your content is automatically stored in iCloud and is available on all devices that use the same Apple ID
3. You have imported your Photos & Videos to Mac/PC then they are safely residing there on Mac/PC
4. You have uploaded some of it to Cloud Drives using the Files app (iCloud Drive, Google Drive, OneDrive, DropBox, Flickr, box, AmazonDrive, Adobe Creative Cloud etc). The data remains there.
5. If you have not backed up or do not have the latest backup, nor imported nor you have synced or uploaded your data to cloud drives prior to the situation that you are in, then I am sorry, all your data is lost.

I will be taking the phone to a Apple Store to see if they can extract the data in a usb

Sorry, but Apple does not know your passcode or password, so you should keep your expectations on the very low side. There are no "workarounds" or "bypass" secrets here.

Unfortunately, no help.

The OP does not want to lose any data, but the document link that you provided will erase all the data on the phone.

This page might be some help:

If you forgot your iPhone passcode, use your Mac or PC to reset it - Apple Support