pairing iphone14 pro with MacBook Air 2024

Normal, not strange. Bluetooth pairing an iPhone or iPad and a Mac is not supported. 

If you are attempting to use Handoff/Continuity or AirDrop, that does involve Bluetooth but the devices are NOT paired; Bluetooth just needs to be on and the devices in range of each other. The following may help with Handoff/Continuity issues: Use Continuity to connect your Mac, iPhone, iPad, and Apple Watch - Apple Support

Also see Share files between your Mac and Bluetooth devices - Apple Support

And see the information in: Bluetooth: Why can't I pair my iPhone or … - Apple Community

You can use Bluetooth with a Mac for personal hotspot. See: How to set up a Personal Hotspot on your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support

Also see the discussion about Hotspot in Bluetooth: Why can't I pair my iPhone or … - Apple Community

If you were using your iPhone as a personal hotspot when there was no Wi-Fi service, you could use Wi-Fi to connect the Mac to the iPhone.

In this scenario, the iPhone would act like a Wi-Fi access point / router. Packets would go from the Mac to the iPhone (over Wi-Fi) to be forwarded to the Internet (via the cellular data connection).