How do I make myself (my Mac) show up as a "suggested" contact when using Airplay from iPhone? Was there now gone.

I have an iPhone and a Mac. I like to often move photos and videos from the phone to the Mac using airplay. It seems for the longest time then when I clicked share that my own airdrop to my Mac would show up automatically. Now for some reason I have to click "airdrop" and then select myself. Oddly, my wife and child DO show up as a suggested Airdrop contact although I've never airdropped anything to them.

Is there a way to make sure I always show up as a suggested contact to shorten this process?

Thank you.