TLDR; this issue doesn’t seem to be an apple issue - its a Google issue 🥴 And there doesn’t seem to be a good way to contact Google.. (but I am persistent and I’m not going to give up!!)
This morning (10/26/24) I had an hour long phone conversation with a wonderful Apple senior support advisor regarding this issue.
Background: I have 3 accounts on my mail app; my iCloud account (we’ll call this “account A”) and 2 gmail accounts (“account B” and “account C”. After updating my iPad to iOS 18, one of my gmail accounts, “account C” was not syncing properly on the ipad. The other gmail account, “account B” and my iCloud account, “account A” were acting as they should.
If I read emails or deleted emails on my iPhone in “Account C”, it was not reflecting that on my iPad. My unread mail count on my ipad for “account C” quickly grew to over 2000. I tried deleting “account C”, restarting my ipad, and reinstalling “account C”… and no change.
During my call with senior support this morning, we checked various settings on apple mail, gmail app, and gmail web browser. We did this for “account C” and also compared them against the “account B” which was working fine. There were NO differences in the settings.
All signs are pointing to an issue on googles side. The apple senior support advisor and myself tried to figure out a way to contact google/gmail support, and there doesn’t seem to be one. There is a gmail community (similar to this) where you can post issues .. so hopefully if enough people post about it, google/gmail will fix the issue! Here’s the link to the Gmail Help Community
-kp