THIS WORKED PERFECTLY!!
I read through this entire discussion post and this was the first solution I tried and it was easy and it worked.
The search and Siri settings pages have been separated in iOS18, so I just toggled everything off from both settings pages. Then, I powered off my phone and let it rest for a couple minutes. Powered back on, turned all the settings back on, and ALL ISSUES have gone away…
Note: your phone might lag a little bit while starting up again, make sure to close all tabs and let the software boot up
EDIT: I realized the reply function doesn’t really work so the original post I was quoting does not show. I mostly outlined the process of fixing the iOS18 lag issues, but if this explanation isn’t clear just find an earlier post of someone talking about search and Siri steps.