I understand your frustration. I spent HOURS troubleshooting the same issue with the Asus BE30000 (BQ16) before finally finding a reliable fix.
Unfortunately, until Asus releases a firmware update to fully address compatibility problems between the iPhone 17 Pro and Wi-Fi 7, the best solution is to temporarily disable Wi-Fi 7 on your network.
After applying the following workaround, my wireless network has been completely stable, with no random disconnects or router reboots when using the iPhone 17 Pro/Max. This assumes your router and all nodes are running the latest firmware.
Steps That Worked for Me
- Disable Wi-Fi 7 Mode in your router settings.
- Remove or uncheck the 6 GHz - 6GHz2 band from your network configuration (both primary and guest SSIDs if applicable).
- Reboot your router and nodes after saving these settings.
Once the system restarts, your iPhone 17 Pro should connect smoothly to the 2.4 GHz and 5 GHz bands without triggering instability.
Hopefully, this helps others avoid the same frustration until Asus rolls out a firmware patch.