Thank you for the screenshot.
"Standby mode bug after updating to iOS 18: None of them worked :("
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Thank you for the screenshot.
Then it probably comes down to a Factory Reset, as provided by sberman. But, a few things to try, before doing so.
A. Start with a Force Restart:
Go Here: Force Restart iPhone - Apple Support
B. Getting Out of a Boot Loop:
If stuck after an update, and is continually restart, if is stuck in a Boot Loop. Use my User Tip: How to Fix an iPhone in a Boot Loop - User Tip
C. Provide a Photo of your Computer Screen:
Are you seeing any messages on your Mac or Windows PC when attempting this update through your Mac? If so, a screenshot may help. Black out personal info (i.e. Time and Names) through use of the Photos app on your Mac.
D. Turn Off All VPNs:
Do you have any VPNs Turned on? IF so, turd them off as the get in the way through configurations.
E. Use a Private LAN:
When updating, it is best to update through Private LAN (Local Area Network), likely that of your home.
F. Use Ethernet:
If you update through you computer, try connecting through Ethernet, if available. IF you have no adapter on your computer, you would need an adapter, plugging your Mac or PC into your router/modem.
G. Try Another User:
For troubleshooting purposes, create a new Administrator user. Log into it, and attempt the update, using the above, if needed. Trash this user, after after the updates has completed.