Is it really a slap in the face? Supporting XP is easy. XP, Vista, and 7 where all 32bit Intel based OS's.
This is literally comparing Apples to oranges? Apple did not make this decision just to spite you? They told everyone, to a lot of fanfare, that they where moving away from PPC to Intel. They even delayed and seriously bloated Leopard so that they could still support PPC and Intel.
Snow Leopard was everyone's wake up call. No more universal binary, no more Rosetta, no more bloat to support a platform they told everyone they where leaving YEARS ago.
What is the average life expectancy of a laptop, and please be honest with yourself. Three years, four years for the really nice ones?
These things are now designed to be replaced every few years. There is some argument to be made on both sides as to whether this is a good thing or not.
But lets cut the hyperbole here, supporting PPC and Tiger would be like Apple supporting Windows 95 and Windows 98 with iTunes. That is the level of architectural difference we are talking about here.
Personally I think they should have ceased support for XP, but that is just me.
It's not a conspiracy, and Apple is not singling you out.
I feel really bad for those on PPC systems who can no longer get Leopard. For those persons, I would hope a call to Apple could at least get you the option to purchase Leopard.
For those on an Intel based Mac, still running Tiger, Apple has a very easy and actually cheaper upgrade solution then Microsoft has ever done, and you get a lot more for your money.
No one likes change apparently, and they like it even less when it feels forced on them.
I have found the changes I have had to make for Apple's products to be less problematic then the ones I have to make for Windows generally.
I of course use both platforms and will continue to do so.