a couple of things:
- for heavy use and often-moved in your house, esp. kitchen, i suggest getting the complete-coverage protection solution from zagg (google it). it's good stuff and will keep your precious ipad "armored" through use. (if you decide to get this solution, check out the youtube videos before applying it yourself -- very helpful to see how others do it, and the mistakes they make :-P)
- then for setting up to stand on its own, i suggest the apple ipad dock. it's simple and inexpensive (relatively :-P).
- optionally, you may want to add a shell on top of this. i suggest the speck candyshell ipad case (again google it), which comes in different colors. it is a simple solution to further protect the underside of your ipad, and it has a flip thingie in the back to accommodate the apple ipad dock when it's seated.
i personally have the zagg solution, the apple ipod dock and a bookbook case (you guessed it: google it) by twelvesouth. the bookbook case is well-made, beautiful and practical (esp. deterrent for the sticky fingers of unscrupulous peeps). it's not necessarily a solution for your in-home heavy usage, but if you ever take it outside, you actually gain both prestige
and smarts! (lol)