syl007 you are a legend! To try and connect my iPad2 and iPhone4S using FT has so far taken me 2 days. This is like climbing Mt Everest!! After resolving AppleID conflicts, not receiving activation emails from Apple and (when I did eventually receive them), the Apple server not validating my emails.... I was getting desperate.
I read numerous forums, on-line articles and Apple tutorials. I found your suggestion and was ready to try anything. I changed my DNS to 8.8.8.8 on both devices. You can imagine my elation when iPhone4 connected to iPad2 and vice versa. It may as well have been Christmas! 4 numbers stood between sanity and insanity!
Thank you so much! Greetings from similarly sunny New Zealand!