@immortaleye
If necessary, you can go in to 'Admin Tools / Services' to stop services like AMDS from starting automatically.
(Whether or not you can see this option might depend on whether or not you have Windows Personal / Pro /Ultimate . . . )
@everyone including immortaleye but excluding mandykayee
This was fixed for me by uninstalling all Apple software from my PC, and then reinstalling iTunes (which installs most other stuff by default anyway).
This even fixed my problem of an infinitely long iPad Backup.
So, I didn't do anything to my iPad - just uninstalled my PC software, and fresh installed it again.
Just FYI, uninstalling iTunes does not delete your library of music, etc.
After re-installing iTunes, all my library music files, videos, audiobooks, and iPad Apps were still visible without having to add them to iTunes again manually.
@mandykayee
Whether the above procedure will work for you when in the middle of a device firmware upgrade or not is anyone's guess? Good luck.
Second posting 😉
My original having been deleted by the thought police, who deemed my views on Apple, although containing no profanity, were so offensive they overrode any constructive contribution the above replies may have added.