Supporting my earlier point that CPU usage is browser-agnostic, a NextWeb article talks about Chrome problems, and solutions.
One solution that no one has mentioned is to simply collect links systematically, rather than having dozens of windows or tabs open. If you had Word open with 20 or 30 documents, you might feel a bit sheepish when your computer grinds to a halt. Why is your browser different? Also, if Safari causes you problems, why haven't you already switched to Chrome, FireFox, or Opera?
Maybe someone will create an article on LifeHacker that talks about managing multiple open tabs đ. Although I'm guilty as the next person (or I wouldn't be visiting this topic) there's a threshold beyond which open tabs are just a bit self-indulgent. That we expect Apple or Google or Mozilla to solve problems that we create, (since we can solve the problem by closing a few tabs or windows) seems a little backwards. Most of our toasters still don't get it right, and our toasts burns, or it doesn't quite brown the bread. Why do you think a complex amalgam of hardware and software networking to undisciplined sites worlds away is going to work perfectly?
That said, I've been free of problems for almost a month following the basic schema laid out here by me and others.