DG:
It's been a bit over 2 weeks since I changed from Mail app to Thunderbird.
I've had no problem sending, and do not get the errors you mention.
I have migrated to iCloud, and still no way to send mail form my MB with Mail App, which is frustrating, because I use iCal for may schedules, which interacts perfectly with Outlook, but not with Thunderbird.
So, untill Apple comes up with a patch to fix this problem, this is what I do:
In my office, I receive mail (all of my accounts SMTP and POP) on my MB Air, with Mail App, where I also receive Outlook an iCal invitations. I accept, or reject, invitations and exit Mail app.
Then I go to Thunderbird, where (god bless Push) I get copies of my mail, and use Thunderbird to respond and forward, or whatever.
Or, I can just use my iPad, where I can read my mail, answer, forward, accept or reject invitations, and do whatever requires emailing; but there, I have to use the on screen keyboard.
Either way, it's very cumbersome, and a lot of juggling.I get my work done, but feel like I'm in crutches.
I really wish Apple (or someone) would solve this nightmare.
Ridemo