I know you are saying you are not suffering from such issues. However, I don't see how that justifies the fact that "most other iPad 1 users have had none [problems]". With nearly 132,000 views, and 300 + replies, this is a widely viewed issue on the Apple forums. If you do a simple google search, you will see many other forums reporting similar issues, such as Macrumors, Sinful iPhone, etc.
Understand that just because you don't have issues, doesn't mean that the rest of the population doesn't. This works vice versa as well, in all fairness.
As a developer, my personal testing reveals that iOS 5 yields a much heavier RAM footprint than previous OS's. With merely 256 mb of ram, the iPad at times is only left with about 60-70mb of RAM for multitasking. For many users, this is not enough, which will make the iPad prone to slowdowns. However, the "casual" user might not face such issues, as he/she might not multitask as much as the "power" user.
Apple sells products to a wide variety of consumers, who all have different needs. Therefore, a variety of consumer-specific issues will arrise as well. And we must all be ready to accomodate these problems, and try as much as possible to help.
Thanks
tpulak