Wow! That statement about sums up the approach to most things I have encountered with my apple products.
I am really quite fed up with the ATV that held so much promise out of the box. Pulling my hair out dealing with Home Sharing devolving into a custody battle over My Library, renting movies that I suddenly can't stream to my TV...
Oddly, there were never any sync problems when I could stream from my computer, which sorta puts paid to the latency excuse -- my sync issues are with "native" ATV 'casters like Netflix, Stan (downunder), YouTube, etc.
This dialogue sync problem is one more straw on the hump of a camel all too ready to break under the load.
Done all of the above and have found I have become an incredibly gifted lip reader -- sure enough.
Next thing, someone will suggest turning on Closed Captions. Now there's a workaround!!