Ok, I've been battling this for ages and I'm a developer, this is what I have found.
I think there is still a problem on all configs, I'm not sure if it's an attempt to fix it in 10.8.3 of if no effort has been made to fix it, but the update has caused it to "move".
Anyway, those that think they has it fixed, try restarting a couple of times, you may find that the problem comes back!
Crashing. Flash seems to aggravate it and make it crash, note if you are running Flash when it crashes.
I can get it to work with rotated displays etc. but it takes a lot of messing around and I have to really think when I do it! Here is what I do (I think!), don't want to restart now cos I will have to swap cables etc.
If you have the "Black Screen Of Pointer Death" BSOPD, do this:
1. Shut down.
2. Unplug all monitors except for one in Slot 1, Port 1 that is in Landscape orientation. You can just move the cables at the Mac end if you are lucky - I am.
3. Power Up.
4. When it boots, and you are in the finder, open Display System Prefs.
5. Attach a new Monitor and wait for it to show up in Display Prefs.
6. If it's in the wrong orientation, click the gather windows button (in arrangement tab).
7. Set the Orientation of the monitor "gathered". This should now work ok, but if not, detach it and connect it to a different card, port. Eventually it should work - at least it has for me.
8. Repeat.
9. If you want all Portrait displays, do as above, but on the last one, switch the main menu screen to one of the displays already rotated.
10. Disconnect the remaining monitor (don't forget to shift display prefs into the (now) main screen.
11. Reconnect and change orientation as above.
This seems to work for me. I just can't imagine what Apple have done to stop this working and I can't possibly imagine why it would be difficult to fix. It worked fine prior to Lion, so surely a look at the differences in the source code between the two versions should highlight the problem? I just cannot believe this has gone unfixed for so long! What *is* going on at Apple?
All the Best
Dave