edwin, thanks for trying... 🙂
that doesn't work for me, though i did try again, just in case!
in the get info window, even though the pull down has open office as an option, when i click it, it auto reverts to text edit. the SAME thing happens when i right click, open with, other..., choose open office, check always use this application. it still reverts back to text edit when i try to open the same document the next time.
very annoying.
but i think i'm onto something as far as my problem goes, and if it works, i'll be back to share soon.