Well for anyone with an 2012 or 2013 Acura TL, which supported AVRCP 1.3 in iOS 5, I think you can safely join me in putting this issue to bed. Acura has indeed indeed finished testing the iPhone 4, 4S, and 5 with iOS 6 and they do now show that the iOS 6 devices are not compatible for song information with the radio. The site was updated 3 days ago.
I called to ask if there was any hope of an update and that representative said at this point they still don't know. They have some vehicles that won't work with the iPhone 5 at all, for even just basic bluetooth pairing. He said that engineers have discussed in meetings the feasibility of a radio update over USB, but at this point they still need to work with Apple and determine themselves what is messed up. Apple is telling them that it's their radios, but at this point that's all they know.
I asked specifically if it is possible to update the radio's bluetooth features and at first he said no (in the beginning of the conversation) and that only the navigation could be updated, but then at the end of the conversation said that it was indeed possible. My understanding from his statements (which are purely my interpretation), is that they already, at present, have the process and utilities to update the navigation software, but don't have the process to update bluetooth firmware (not that it can't be done, just that they don't currently do it yet). My conversation with a different representative last month made a similar statement, that it is possible to update bluetooth firmware, but it at present isn't implemented.
I was told to check back in a few months as they have been meeting on the topic regularly with engineers on what they will do.
The engineer in me knows what is going to happen: iOS 6 devices will forever live on as "compatible with some features" on my TL and subsequent years models until they release a model with revised firmware that will work. My guess is the new model year for 2014? I guess is when they change it? The 2013 Accord has Honda's new radio interface, which I would think will come to the TL then, so I'm going to see how my iPhone works in ours. I haven't paired it up to try yet, since we just got it only a few weeks ago.
It might not be Apple's fault, but still I say: "Thanks for nothing." Because what I have with this iPhone right now is a whole lot of nothing. The WiFi has a nice "feature" where it turns off when the screen is off, rendering my phone a battery guzzling and occasionally data disconnected device for 8 hours every day at work where my service is bad but the WiFi is plentiful. Half of my notification sounds don't work since iOS 6 (also very well documented on the web). Along with this issue. I know, first world problems, eh? Can't wait for the jailbreak so I can remedy some of these problems.