my solution is working well : stop using dhcp, use static adresses until apple solve the case.
Sometimes you'll have to reboot on or two times....
I really hate to plug my iphones+ipads+ipods in my closet....i really needed it to work.....and it works perfectly....Some people can achieve good results when renewing the bail, but often....it doesn't work properly.
The cause is simple: there's something wrong with ios6 capabilities to maintain a "keep-alive" state between the server (itunes) and the client (ios device)....
You need to be able to assign static addresses to your devices and then assign it within your router: that will keep alive the connection without bail (the bail is there to timeout an automatically assigned ip address by dhcp)....even tough you turn off your devices...or server.....
When that doesn't work you just need to reboot the server and the ios devices....and let de connections reestablish themselves...
Tha solution is only appliable to home network with limited clients .....but i fint it a nice workaround....it's been more than one month that i operate this manner.....it's ok for me.....it should be for many of you.