tl;dr - Is there a third-party solution available that someone has created or discovered?
Alright, so stereotypical bickering about which OS is better aside, we've learned that there is no default way to simply choose to sort folders first in OS X. This isn't only a "Windows" feature, but also a feature used in several programs, applications, and devices throughout history. It's how my directories are sorted in my file browser on my linux box, it's how the directories are sorted in every single FTP program I've ever used, and its how the "tree" structure in most programming applications has sorted files and directories.
Mac OS X simply does not do this as several hundred other applications have.
It comes down to a user experience in function rather than "Mac is different stop complaining". Files are files and directories are groups of files. Why they would be sorted all mixed together by default completely negates the need to group the files in the first place if you ask me my personal opinion. Directories are supposed to make it easier to locate groups of files... which doesn't help if they're randomly sorted amongst large groups of files themselves.
Yes we can "sort by kind", which does display them on their own and this is what I have been using HOWEVER... if there was a way to make this function out of the box without having to change to a display I disike, that would be wonderful. I really like the default view I have apart from the directory sorting. I don't want to use a column view.
So moving on.... with no bickering, whining, complaining, or otherwise stating any false claims about which OS is better or why they're right... is there at least a third-party solution that someone has created or that someone could suggest to accomodate this? I would much rather NOT hack a string file due to the obvious reasons stated in this thread - and because I enjoy updating without having to redo all the work I did previously.