WHERE IS THIS "REMOTE" BUTTON IN ITUNES????? I CANT FIND IT ANYWHERE AND CANT FIND WHERE TO PUT IN THE CODE!!!!

Sorry, what do you mean by 'click "add an iTunes Library"'????????????

The app shows nothing of sorts.

Mine just has 2 options. 'enable home sharing' and 'add device'

Enable home sharing syncs home sharing which I have done.

Add device shows a 4 digit passcode to input on iTunes to sync devices.

Now where do I do what? Why does apple even bother with these features if 1) they can't even explain how to set it up without ******* up big time and 2) When they clearly do not support customers with issues like these.

""Add Device" takes you to the same place. But make sure to have the latest version of the App and iTunes

Thanks to those that actually tried to help with this, in my case it was that the computer and phone were not seeing each other, so the remote button/icon was not showing up. I think it would be useful if the help pages noted that detail a little more in regard to it only 'appearing' when the devices can see each other and you have the remote app open.

As a note, it's surprising to see that the some of the most unhelpful replies here came from people with high levels and lots of points, the only skills they seem to display here are ignorance and arrogance, rather than reading past the obvious inaccuracies in the posts and actually trying to be of some assistance... perhaps that's what the points are for... nice work guys 😐

The trick is to close itunes. Open the remote app. In the app click add itunes library from settings. Once the 4 digits appear, open itunes. The remote button should appear.

Woodcider,

thank you for your thoughtful reply. Clearly, unlike diesel vdub, you understand that help may still be given in unlikely places.

Like tc4144, I could not find a remote button. In my case, it never appeared (I repeated the list of instructions you provided, and waited several minutes at the end each time). I hoped to see that remote button as well, because it'd be awful nice to have the ability to remotely control my music playback.

As it was, I had already spent a couple hours fighting with two-factor authentication (which does not work with the Remote app [ Re: Home Sharing - A Story of Struggle ]), and I really didn't have the patience to work on it any longer, so I have given up on the darn thing.

Perhaps another day.

Cheers.

Found the answer in this article! You should connect phone and computer with cable. Then restart iTunes. There will be 2 devices shown in the top left corner, one of which is the remote.

That worked for me Yiannos, thanks.

THANK U SO MUCH !!!!!! <3