OK, i have an update on my problem - just to keep you all up to date, my iPhone 5 was freezing after the ios7 update in all applications (mail, settings, facebook, etc).
Went to the Apple store, and they "ran iOS diagnostics, observed the issue, device was freezing in front of me. Customer is aware that device is out of warranty. restored from DFU mode, restored as a new device.
Steps to Reproduce: observed the issue, restored from DFU mode, restored as a new device, still freezes
Proposed Resolution: Replace device under customer satisfaction as a one-time exception"
In other words, they couldnt fix it. I was 6 days out of my warranty on the phone and the store approved a replacement phone. I am on the replacement iPhone 5 and it is working without any problems. FINALLY.