To Senyorita Jenn,
Getting a paid-for technician to look at an out of warranty iphone with wifi greyed out is indeed a good move!
The 4 and 4S has this special antenna design where the steel band around the phone is separated into wifi and 3G antennas. There has got to be some place where these antennas are electrically connected to the motherboard, with connection point(s) on the antenna side, the wire itself, and connection point(s) on the motherboard side.
I remember watching how to fix it tutorials on ifixit.com showing this very very tiny round connector near the wifi chip. Now, I don't know if this connector is soldered on, but could this connection point come loose? Would dropping the phone jar this connector loose?
We won't know until the area is looked at. I think this wifi problem is a mix of different issues, making it confusing and frustrating. We have:
* wifi chips which have gone disabled after updates, for some people, it was right after upgrade to ios7, for some it was upgrade to 7.0.1, for some 7.0.2, for some 7.0.3, for some 7.0.4. None of those upgrades had any published changes to the wifi portion (for example, no 802.11ac introduced or wifi bug fixes), so why would the upgrade cause the wifi chip to get disabled?
I've encountered upgrades where we loaded a new os image onto the firmware (not talking about iphone here), but on reboot the boot process failed. Bad firmware, couldn't even survive a re-write. In the iphone's case, how can a upgrade, break exactly at loading of the wifi drivers?
But there are so many people who reported the wifi going grey right after an upgrade, and no matter what they reset the wifi won't come back. This is very strange.
* Then we have wifi that is not greyed out, but can't connect to their home wifi or public wifi. For some folks, reset-network-setting works, but not for some.
* Then we have the wifi that exits greyed out mode after freeze/heat. For some folks, the wifi stays working, and for some, it greys out after some time.
Given all this, I would say there's one thing left to do: open it up and look at the darn thing. Look at that wifi connector, take a tootpick and tap it to see if it's loose. Is any metalic part of the antenna/wire assembly frayed and touching the upwards the iphone back cover?
Thanks for sharing your experience.