After reading most of this thread, all I can say is I'm glad I have NONE of these problems.
Why?
Well, I just upgraded my MacBookPro, circa 2012, to Mavericks.
I have a Samsung SmartTV 40" LCD. with built in Ethernet, and WiFi. It can directly connect to the internet, and is loaded with dozens of apps, like Netflix, and YouTube, and Pandora, and Gmail. All things you can connect to even without a computer.You can connect a USB keyboard and a mouse to the TV. They are adding new apps all the time. Some free, some subscription like Huluplus. The TV updates it's own software, and probably firmware too, automatically over the internet.
I therefore direct connect the TV to the internet service provider's cable modem.
I also direct connect the Ethernet of the MacBook. I don't use WiFi unless I leave the house with it and I can find a free connection.
Then, I direct connect the Thunderbolt mini-DVI port to an HDMI port of the TV. I had never done that before, as I just bought the right adapter and cable.
Both Mac and TV sync to each other at the higest HD possible. If I don't want the Mac to go to sleep, I don't let it go to sleep. That is a setting, people.
It doesn't go to sleep during video playback, anyway.
And best of all, the reason it all works, is because in the System Preferences / Displays, the Mac recogizes the Samsung, and gives every concievable configuration options if I want to tinker with it, which I haven't done because why mess with it if it's already flawless?
I couldn't be happier. In my opinion Samsung makes the best TVs both in terms of connectivity and picture quality. And they're often on sale at Walmart.
Mine was a leftover model.
Why use a cheap display as a monitor, when the best SmartTVs aren't really that expensive anyway. Saves hundreds of dollars worth of headaches, if you ask me.
That's all...