Well... I am glad at least that other people are as clueless, mystified, and frustrated as I am. This all started when I "upgraded" my iPhone. Before that everything was fine, and then, suddenly all my music was on the cloud... so then i could only play things as they were streaming and had to pay for "Match" just to get access to music that was already mine, and then nothing was compatible with Sonos anymore ... and why isn't any of my music stored on my computer anymore???? so if i was someplace without internet access, I could not access music... maybe somehow I agreed to something without my knowledge (i.e., was tricked by apple to "agree" to having my music put on the cloud) but to me it's just stealing.
I returned my phone and took back my old one, but by then it was too late. I managed to get music back onto my phone by using an old back-up, but now I'm afraid to sync it in case the music gets taken off again so I've gone un-synced for over a year and so can no longer update my photo albums and do all the great things that made me buy all these Apple products in the first place. I still can't figure out how to play music on my computer unless it is connected to the internet. I get this picture of a could next to each song and have to stream just to list to music that used to all be on my Mac book Pro. And worse to all, A LOT of music will not play at all because I either bought it from someone other than Apple or because I LEGALLY downloaded it for free. My favorite DJ posts long mixes online for free, and between Match, iCloud, etc, I just can't play any of it any more no matter what I do.
I was always happy to pay up for Apple products because I thought they were so great. Apple used to be where people went to escape the "evil empire" (Microsoft, etc) but now Apple has become the evil empire. It is pretty clear Apple wants to separate me from my music, force me to buy music only from them, and control my ability to access what is legally mine. I will try a bit longer to get my music back under my own control but in the end I think I will just ditch all my Apple products and move back to PCs, get an Android, etc, and start my music collection over again rather than be held hostage to them.
The stupid petty stuff, like changing the iPhone chargers, making cheap headsets and chargers that break so that we have to buy new ones, and all that other nonsense Apple does to make a few extra dollars at their customers' expense is tedious and annoying but something I can live with. Messing with my music is not. I will gladly pay 5 times as much for inferior products elsewhere just to once again have possession of my own music.