Have you been through the constructive suggestions on this thread, regarding settings, resets etc?
this may well have been a poor choice by apple: however, think carefully before you choose another brand. A lot of people on this thread reflexively reach for the Samsung brand - tell me, do you think your new Samsung tablet would be supported with security updates 3 years after release?
the fact that the ipad2 has received ios8 is actually cause for celebration: your investment in an embedded tablet platform remains up to date - I can guarantee that a Samsung device will only stay up to date after 3 years with android if you replace the OS with a cyanogenmod build. Are you willing to learn this?
likewise macs: your OS updates are cheap: seen the price of a windows licence lately?
finally: I appreciate that you might regard this thread as therapeutic, but ultimately you have to remember that this is essentially a technical self-help forum: if you post successful workarounds here, it's of benefit to the community.
IF you you continue to think that Apple will respond to this forum you are going to be disappointed (see posts with "apple? Hello" on).
Previous posters have mentioned that it is possible to raise issue reports with apple through a dedicated site - I would urge all of you to do this, and spread the word to do likewise: if the ipad2 issues are as widespread as you think, millions of devices are misbehaving and that's a lot of issue reports. Apple will listen if enough people report it - the iPhone 4 redux of iOS 7 proves this.
so: don't waste your emotional energy on this thread: analyse it for any positive workarounds (there have been several reported to help) and get those issue reports in.
Please do not misinterpret this message. I am attempting to help.