Well Ronanos, I agree this is very frustrating but I am afraid that going to other vendors might be a very short lived solution too.
But obviously that is a choice you can always make.
I like to think that Apple is (still) trying to fix this.
My experience over the past 8 years of owning several "iDevices" has been better than with any other brand or OS I have owned before.
Maintaining the same good level of user experience on several generations of products (more than three years!) on consumer electronics like these is not an easy task.
At least with Apple you have a vendor who has the ability to control the user experience because they develop both HW and SW. At some point they will have to draw the line on how far we can take the iPad2 down the IOS path. Perhaps this is where Apple should be more cautious.
A lot of my friends and family who stayed on IOS7 on their iPad2 do not have this issue and I am telling them to stay there.
Anyway, back on topic, I upgraded tp 8.1.2 but the issue of freezing with the message "reconnecting..." remains.
What I have noticed is that when I use FT on my Macbook or iMac (on Yosemite), I do not have the issue at all. using the same wireless network at my home from exactly the same location. Only the iPAD2 with IOS 8.x.x has the problem; no matter how close I am to the router. I don't move around either during the FT call. The iPad2 sits still on the table.
The people on the other end of the FT call can still hear me while my iPad2 is saying "Reconnecting...", the image is freezing on both ends and I can't hear any audio on my end.