What a bummer! Genius Bar couldn't help you at all?! Considering so few people seem to have this disappearing trashcan issue, who knows how long it will take Apple to fix it. Could your iPad have acquired it from your phone? I believe my iPad was not affected because i was not texting on it when i downloaded iOS 8. When i did start texting on it, it synced with my phone from that point on, but the glitch was imbedded in a text message prior to that. When it gets "ANNOYING" enough, i think you can track it down if you don't mind deleting some things. It has to be a piece of data that AT&T transfered from your old iPhone 5 (pics, contacts, calendar, reminders, etc.) that was put on your phone before you downloaded iOS 8. If you have a lot that was transfered, it probably would be difficult to pinpoint the problem. Wish i could do more to help, but i guess its up to Apple . . . hope you don't have to wait much longer.