Yes, I have just discovered I have the same problem - as far as I am aware, with only one correspondent. Certainly most of my emails seem to be being received ok (but how do you ever know? Even if the correspondent is getting error messages back, if he/she has only the one address for you and no phone no, they can't tell you there's a problem!).
Since the problem has been in existence for 3 weeks now with only a handful of people raising it on this forum, it must be a problem with only a tiny minority of users; so it is probably some obscure combination of settings on the sending server. The simple failure to receive any email asking for a delivery success receipt would surely cause far more emails to fail and hence a huge volume of complaints?
I have raised it with Apple Support (as an addendum to ongoing correspondence on another minor issue they have been trying and failing to address for a couple of months). I'll see what that brings. In the meantime, any more ideas on what the specific cause is would be great. My correspondent is a small business in UK (property letting agent) using MS Outlook, I assume on a small server in their office (they also have a website).
My work-around is to get them to send their emails to an alternative address in another domain I own. Although these emails are forwarded to my @mac.com address, the forwarding seems to get round the delivery receipt issue.
Does anyone know any other fix from the receiving end? I've asked my "problem" correspondent if it is possible for him to turn off delivery receipt requests. Since I am their customer rather than vv, it's not as embarrassing for me as some of you have reported, but still a pain all round.