After trying measures mentioned earlier in this thread without any luck, I'm also suspicious reordering the airport priority and resetting the PRAM will be the solution.
I have been up for nearly 30 minutes though, and the wireless did pop up after the machine was asleep.
That being said, I thought it would be helpful to include the link to show how to reset the PRAM:
http://docs.info.apple.com/article.html?artnum=2238
Add me to the list of disappointed by Apple's lack of acknowledgment that many mac intel wireless users were effectively hosed after the 10.4.8 update. I was golden for six months before this update. Come on Apple - You're better than that...
Ryan
iMac Intel Mac OS X (10.4.8)
iMac Intel Mac OS X (10.4.8)