blokefromlondon wrote:
Surprised by the amount of unhelpful and stubborn "that's not our policy" type response here towards many people that have encountered the same issue. The repetition of you need to use "family sharing" is not a good fix for missed calls appearing on phones that did not miss the call. As a "feature" seeing missed calls elsewhere can be helpful, but the implementation is flawed in that there is no choice provided if you want it or not. A simple toggle in the settings would fix it all. It can be very confusing to see these messages.
Please, stop saying Family Sharing is the answer. It might fix the issue in some circumstances, but it is overkill fo this use case and still not a fix for all. How does it solve my problem? Very simply, I have 2 phones. I own them both. I use them both. I personally DO NOT want to see missed calls from one phone disturbing me on the other phone. It rarely makes sense. I intentionally want to keep them as identical as possible from an apps and content perspective, and as they are both owned by me I do NOT want to create an additional icloud account owned both owned by me.
Also, switching off other features which may be useful such as icloud drive, or handoff - no, those are workarounds that remove other functionality.
I'm not the only one - I suspect there may be a few more people using their phones like me - in fact there are a few here with the same issue!
Like you, I have 5 devices that I use - 2 Macs, 2 iPads and an iPhone. I share an Apple ID on all of them because I am the only user. This is a great convenience for sharing contacts, calendars, notes, Safari bookmarks, Keychain, Find my iPhone, app data through iCloud Drive, music, apps, photos, messages and email. I see my recent contacts across devices also. Since they are all mine I find this a convenience, it certainly doesn't bother me, and I frequently take advantage of it, so I can return a missed call to my phone from my Mac. My wife has her own Apple ID. We share apps, music, calendars through Family Sharing. She doesn't see my calls, and I don't see hers.
That's the way it's designed to work. No one in this user-to-user support forum can change the way it works.