Re: "Unintuitive" in Apple.
You are 100% correct. I've wasted more time clicking on icons that do nothing. Most are symbols that have very little to do with their function, and returning is a completely different symbol in a different place. [Try playing with mini-player and try to get back with icons and the menu. Why does my pointer arrow turn to a finger, on the image, but I have to click on the circle in the lower right? Super-non-intuitive.]
They are doing more and more MS-like hidden right-clicks; items not listed in the menu.
I, too, wanted to adjust my Paul Simon Radio to play less obscure songs, but those adjustments went the way of many other good GUI ideas, into the Trash. Your comfort, ease of use, gets totally blown out of the water with every upgrade.
Personally, this eroding of custom settings, moving further and further from what Apple was known for, but to push me to buying a subscription is only making me move farther away faster.
I can see having no control over the office's elevator music, but I have an entire computer at my disposal, and recreating an FM radio is the best they can do, no control over songs or ads? Soon that will be pay, too. You have a choice to buy it and own it or rent it. Either way, it will cost the user, they depend on the hidden "Internet Radio" as a free "Upgrade" substitute and we would still not have much control. It's like boiling a frog; we're the frog.
The king has died, the magic is gone, and Camelot has become just another crumbling ancient castle on a tourist Google (not Apple) map; a tale we can tell our grandchildren of a land with magical devices, nearly mind-reading user interfaces, with spectacular announcements and major technology advancements.
They won't believe us.
In short, it's not you. I spent the past 2 hours trying to learn Apple's imitation of an Android user interface.
Good luck.