I am experiencing same frustrating issues with sounds....or should I say, the lack there of! I updated to the iOS 9 last week then the 9.0.1 a day or so later and its the worst! Wish I could just remove this update but when talking with apple support they advised that is not possible. I've rebooted and restored my phone well over a dozen times in the last 5 days or so since this stupid iOS update. Restoring through iTunes was a temporary "fix" the issue but only lasted for less than 24 hours then it was back to the same old B.S of no sound.
I used to love Apple products but am starting to understand why the "apple-haters" are so against Apple products! I hope they get their stuff together and get this crap figured out soon!