michaelwsherman wrote:
Did you see the problem before Sierra, and now it seems better with Sierra after resetting the SMC? Not that it will generalize to me necessarily, I've got a mid-2012.
I cannot say that the one time the MBP failed to wake wasn't because of a dodgy AC adapter (since replaced). It hasn't happened again since the adapter was replaced, either.
Now, I have had it take a while to wake from sleep--sometimes 15-20sec--but it's rare when it does happen. I reboot the Mac and don't see the issue again for weeks, possibly months so I'm less inclined to believe it's hardware or a specific macOS issue.
You may want to try (assuming you haven't already) doing a clean install and see if the problem goes away. Don't restore any old settings or TM backups (yet) but simply copy/paste data over as-needed (i.e., iTunes, Photos, etc.) into their respective folders. If the problem returns, the prospect of it being a hardware issue appears more convincing but that's just a guess.
The only time this was happening with any sort of frequency was when I was running ElCap and VMware. I don't run VMware anymore, the problem became far less frequent; when I replaced the AC adapter, it went away almost entirely.
I hope that helps!