Speckta, thank you for your update.
Uninstall and re-install ESET doesn't work. At least, for me, it didn't (I tried it before my first post in here).
For security reasons, I don't want them to remotely access my computer.
If possible, they should tell me what to do. If not, I prefer not use ESET than let them remotely access my computer.
I understand that it could be a temporary measure for their convenience. However they should release a new version as soon as possible.
Regarding what ESET rep said, I agree with it:
In network security (and in epidemiology, by the way), carriers are almost as important as infected ones. Security software for mac (and even for Linux) is particularly important in multi-enviroment ecosystems. That's a main reason I use ESET, Kaspersky or other.
But don't get me wrong, let me emphasize it: for now (nobody knows the future: 0day malware), there are some (not that much, comparing with Windows and Android) malware targeting Mac (even fewer targeting Linux). But it only needs one of those to be successful and potentially jeopardize me. I don't blindly trust Apple, as I don't blindly trust ESET (or any other software company)... as I don't blindly trust me. Everyone knows that user is the biggest exploit, I don't mind have a little help.
But, despite this, I have to recognize it: OS X targeting malware wasn't the reason I choose ESET Cyber Security Pro.
Any good reputed modern security company has software that does much more than only detecting malware.
I wanted a good both way firewall (OS X firewall is one way only, if I'm not mistaken) that would let me control my traffic out (OS X firewall only controls traffic in, I think). That's other main reason I use it, as I used little snitch and others before.
(off-topic: I also recommend ports monitor software. Very important too: privacy software (VPN if you can afford it, anti-tracking, browsing security, etc)