How often are you or anyone else here “harassed” by the software upgrades/updates message/dot?
I only get harrased with the iOS update downloading to my iDevices every few weeks, or so.
Here’s a little tip they may help with reducing the amount of times a iOS upgrade/update gets pushed to your iDevices from Apple’s software update servers.
Some, or maybe, many iDevice users are not aware of how they can minimise the frequency with which they are receiving these iOS upgrade/update downloads from Apple’s software download servers.
If I keep my iDevices fully charged up during the day, so I don’t have to charge them up while I am sleeping, I won't get the iOS upgrades/updates downloaded to my iDevices, as Apple’s servers, usually, push the updates to your iDevices ONLY if you are charging your iDevices overnight where Apple pushes these iOS upgrades/updates to your iDevices AFTER 2:00 AM.
OR IF you have no choice, but to charge your iDevices overnight while you are sleeping, turn OFF Wifi and not only will the iOS upgrade/update NOT get pushed to your device, it will charge quicker with Wifi and online access has been ceased for the evening.
You do not have to go to the extreme condition YOU seem to be using and advocating!
At any rate, I usually just delete it with no real contempt or malice about it.
I could understand if someone was getting harassed with upgrading/updating iOS every single day or every other day or, maybe, even once a week!
But if once every two to three weeks the upgrade/update appears, I really don't see this as really being harassed, but maybe more of a minor annoyance, at best.
The terms “harassed” and “forced”, in this context, seem like an extreme reaction.