siri on mac has the wrong person as "my info"

Thank you - that worked!

First, I pulled my Card and in the upper menu selected Make This My Card and the little black human shape appeared next to my name.

Second, I went to System Preferences ->Internet Accounts -> Deleted My Gmail and Yahoo Accounts nothing else.

Third, I disabled then enabled Siri in System Preferences.

Asked Siri who I am and she got it right.

I then added back the Gmail and Yahoo Accounts and is all good now.

I'm really surprised Apple hasn't fixed this since it is a bug during upgrade or at the very least it should instruct users with other accounts to delete then add post upgrade. Just saying...... 😐

Are you signed into iCloud with only your Apple ID?

Sign out of iCloud and back in again

>System Preferences>iCloud

mine is the same thinks I'm my wife and if you ask for birthdays for wife or myself it says a day early but daughters is correct.

I have this problem too. Siri thinks I am my wife and I do not have family sharing set up. I deleted her contact card and Siri found another card of hers that is not in my contact app!

I fixed this. I had my wide's Apple ID set up on my machine (even though it wasn't active). I had to delete her from my Accounts. Contacts/Accounts. Siri then defaulted to me from My Card in Contacts. Not sure what would happen if I added back misleading account.

I have exactly the same problem: Siri thinks I am my daughter and that that's what I told Siri! My daughter has an account on my MacBook Pro, and I signed out of both our iCloud accounts so that there were no contacts listing her or me in either of our Mac accounts. But whichever Mac account I signed into, Siri still thought I was her. I then signed back in to my iCloud account, and nothing changed. And the contact card Siri shows for me (a card for my daughter) is not identical to the one for her I can see in my contacts. It seems as though SIri keeps this information somewhere else. I'm puzzled.

I had a very helpful conversation with Tiago from Apple Technical Support. Having tried signing in and out of both my iCloud account and my daughter's, and enabling and disabling Siri, which didn't help, what worked was:

• signing out of my iCloud account in System Preferences while in my macOS account (my daughter has a macOS account too on this MacBook Pro)
• disabling Siri by unchecking 'Enable Siri' in System Preferences
• deleting all my daughter's accounts from Internet Accounts in System Preferences
• restarting my MacBook Pro
• enabling Siri, which then reported it didn't know who I was when I asked 'Who am I?'
• signing in to my iCloud account
• checking that my contact card in Contacts was marked as mine (choose 'Make This My Card' from the Card menu in Contacts if not)
• asking Siri 'Who am I?' then gave the correct answer and brought up my contact card.

I added back my daughter's accounts, and everything remained working as it should.

Well knows who I am now but still a day early on most birthdays when asked

I don't know why everyone is making this so complicated, unless Apple just fixed this recently. You go into your contact card in Contacts and select "Card" in the top menu, then "Make this my card." I was so frustrated until I found this out!

The point is, for some of us, even if you had done that (gone to your own contact card and selected 'Make this my card'), Siri was picking another contact card, in my case my daughter's, probably from her iCloud account, which made the solution more complicated. But I'm glad yours worked first time!