thank your for your insights in what seems really to be a major problem with High Sierra. How this issue is handled by Apple is outrageous to say the least. The agents at the phone desk are not aware of (or possibly even worse: seem not to know, because they have been told to behave like this).
I can confirm: on my iMac (built late 2013, though sold to me as new in October 2015) I have the problem, and let the activity monitor running in the background. The WindowServer, the kernel_task, Skype and Skype helper, Flash Player with Safari (to run a specific chat with video and audio conferencing) as well as Zoom (again an audio/video conferencing) shows up as very high % CPU values. Specifically, Zoom, a very "light" software may risk to run to up 200% CPU. The consequence is: the traffic deriving from the chats (both the one over Flash Player in Safari as well as Zoom) will hold back incoming traffic (for as long as 3 or 4 minutes), sometimes the two applications I have running are holding up the other one, to then suddenly release the cumulated traffic in a"fast forward mode". The application may eventually catch up with the live chat, though you can imagine how detrimental such a behaviour will have on a chat or video conference: you expect a feedback and then for minutes you don't get any, you see the video on hold, and then you see your chat partner having left the chat (most likely for lack of reply).
In reference with HEVC and video encoding, if I remember correctly, I saw the process running at very high % CPU.
As an additional possible consequence, downloads of relatively big files (3 to 5 GB) despite having a high download (500 MBits) will relatively often fail.
A last symptom: also Mail (used with a Gmail account) is extremely slow, downloads at every new start hundreds of email and move as many around (e.g. delete).Whether this is a consequence of the above problems or an additional problem related to the same root cause I don't know, though I don't remember to have had such situations in the past (i.e. turning down my iMac would leave in the clouds not the absolute current state of the email box, using it from an iPad or MacBook would not give the same results. I've noticed this by coincidence last week.
Needless to say, that before HIGH Sierra none of the above symptoms were occurring. Actually a MacBook bought at the same time (October 2015, though also built in 2015) has no issues whatsoever with HIGH Sierra. It was actually the successful pilot on my MacBook that mislead me to a premature HIGH Sierra upgrade in my iMac.
The soft resets have been performed as per instructions, there have been some improvements, the nightmare of downgrading I'm not considering.
Since it was Christmas time and a retailer had a promotion, I bought yesterday a new 21,5' iMac with I7 Processor, 16GB, 1 TB Fusion drive and Radeon with 2GB Video (since not available as such, let's see whether it will be build early 2018 ...) for approx. USD 2000. As per sales support, this configuration should be actually already too good for very standard applications (Office, Mail, Browsing), the 27' with I5 Processor would have been a more than viable alternative. Considering the bottlenecks in performance, I decided to go for I7.
Let's see whether I'll still have the issues once my new iMac in the second half of January should be delivered.