LOL....I won't ask your age, but I'm "massively" impressed by anyone in computer/computer-based profession. I had to chuckle when I read your comment regarding your profession. When I was in the military back in 1968, one of my fellow Marines had a background in computers. That had nothing to do with his military occupation, but our superiors knew that he was proficient in computer work. Consequently, he voluntarily worked every Saturday morning, helping with programming, I believe. Get this. The computer was so large, that it was housed inside of an aircraft hangar. I tagged along one Saturday, just to see what these "computers" were all about. All I recall, is that the machine was huge and I had no clue what he was doing, but the computer people were very happy with him. My friend had a degree in business, but opined that computer technology would evolve over the years and that we might even see one in our personal lives. He had an interest in computers, so I have no doubt that he pursued a career in that field after leaving the service. Little did I know at the time, that I'd be communicating with someone 50 yrs later and casually discussing "CarPlay" and Honda. LOL.
Btw, I took delivery of my CRV this past November. I've been using CarPlay since day one. This morning, I decided to spend some time in the car learning the standard built-in bluetooth, wi-fi, etc. as an alternative to CarPlay just in case. After learning and using the system for about an hour, I now realize just how great CarPlay is. Didn't realize how spoiled I am with CarPlay. I'll tolerate its quirkiness until a resolution is found.