Looks like we have arrived. Considering the comments drought of recent, my conclusion is that SWF appears to have been resolved for most affected here. Most likely with the 10.13.5 update of HS. Well, it looked frustratingly remote and unclear as to how we get here but here we are.
My iMac has not experienced a single SWF since the 10.13.5 update, which can cautiously be accepted as resolved. It remains unknown what approach has been taken to provide the solution. In particular, whether any compromises have been made to power management and the system 'sleep' state.
Although I have no proof (as I had not been able to predict the months of SWF suffering, before it happened), it seems to me that before the dreaded 10.13.2 HS update there were two different states of 'sleep' - one, the 'hibernate' on 'autopoweroff' and another, intermediate one, where the computer will still wake up from a memory image saved to the persistent storage, going through the 'grey-screen-with-a-progress-bar' resume process, but somewhat quicker than the wake from an 'autopoweroff' state. Now it is not possible to be certain and will remain unknown, unless a good-natured apple source, confirms or denies it.
Nevertheless, it is undoubtly a huge relief and I can only be grateful to anyone at Apple who has contributed to resolving this problem, although I am not yet ready to forgive all those who refused to acknowledge the existence of the SWF issue for such a long time, even with at least a hint of an official statement, if they did not want to admit it publicly.
PS
It still remains to be seen, if there would not be any residual trouble for users, who might wish to change their 'standby' and 'hibernate' settings, which should not happen, for as long as these are perfectly normal options to set.
PPS
The following list of sleep reports is somewhat suspicious, if part of the SWF solution, because it replaces the problem with potential problems of possibly removing the benefits of ‘hibernate’ and ‘autopoweroff’, which safeguard by saving a memory image to the persistant storage.
sleep 10 (sleep prevented by coreaudiod)
sleep 10 (sleep prevented by sharingd)
sleep 10 (sleep prevented by coreaudiod, sharingd)
sleep 10 (sleep prevented by coreaudiod, apsd, mds_stores)
Hopefully, my paranoia will turn out unfounded.