iphone 6 or earlier wont go into recovery mode
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i have an iphone se. I know to connect my device to my computer and open itunes (itunes opens on its own once i do connect it). I get the pop up about how there is an error and itunes cant read my phone, yes i know this. I proceed with the next step to press and hold the home and the top (or side) buttons down at the same time until i see the recovery mode screen (cord and telling me to connect to itunes). but it never happens. My phone dings like i am just powering it on like normal. and the error box pops up again. so i begin again. i close itunes, disconnect my device and starting with connecting my device, then open itunes, press and hold but still no recovery screen. I worked for tech, i have done this a thousand times, what is the deal.
fyi.....phone status is disabled, i cant remember the passcode and tried to enter in the wrong one way too many times. following this article, like I know I should. not working. please advise, 3 hours away from apple retail who cant do anything anyway. i am tech so i am at a loss. may try another computer and if that works, I will update this. thank you in advance.
iPhone SE, unk as to what update i am on