Well, I figured out why my posting on a "proposed solution" to this VPN mess had worked, but it is not a fix. My setup is: Cable Modem > AEBSg > AEBSn (bridge mode). So when I connect my XP laptops to the wireless connection of the AEBSn, the VPN does connect, even in both machines running at the same time. For clarification, the XP laptops connect in g frequency, since the AEBSn is in configured in the b/g/n mode. So I thought that was it. However, as soon as I remove the "old" AEBSg out of the setup, the "solution" seems to vanish. I checked several times to ensure that I was not accidentally connected wirelessly to the "old" router while doing this, and for extra security my wireless networks have different names. We will just have to wait until Apple releases a firmware update...
iMac Intel, MacBook Pro, XP laptops Mac OS X (10.4.8) AEBS g and AEBSn