Thanks a million for the heads up. Let me correct my stupid self. First, any devices that have any services signed into with your Apple ID will appear under your Apple ID marquee in settings on your iOS devices (scroll down to the bottom.) In macOS, you have to go into iCloud preferences, click on Account Details and then the Devices tab. Either way, if you don’t see any unknown devices then you should be OK on that front. Second, if FaceTime is disabled on a device, it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re not signed into FaceTime on that device! On the Mac, in FaceTime preferences, regardless of whether it’s enabled, if the Sign Out button is actively black and white, you’re signed in and you just click the button to sign out. On the iOS device, in FaceTime settings, if it’s disabled, toggle it on and then, if it’s signed in, it will enable without prompting you to sign in at which point you click on your Apple ID and sign out. Otherwise, if you’re not already signed in, it’ll prompt you to sign in at which point you just cancel. Anyway, if you got the email and no unknown devices are signed into, I’m confident you’re inadvertently signed into it on one of your devices but, as you have by now surmised, I could easily be wrong.