when I try to use the iforgetmypassword it gives me the password for my AppleID
? The http://iforgot.apple.com link (if you are going to something called 'iforgetmypassword' you aren't using the link I gave) lets you reset an account's password, it doesn't tell you your password.
As I said in the original the email I wrote in my query is deleted
If you are using security questions on the account you can reset an account's password by answering those questions on the iforgot site. If you've also forgotten your answers to your questions : http://www.apple.com/support/itunes/ww
but cannot find reply where the AppleID is different that the ITunes password.
It's not, an account can obviously only have one password, that password is the same wherever you use the account (iTunes, App Store, iBookstore, Mac App Store, computer's iTunes etc.)