I have the exact same issue on a Mac mini 2018 running Mojave 10.14.5 (which includes iTunes 12.9.5.5): when trying to play movies full screen in iTunes, the screen will go black - unless I keep the on-screen control bar in the bottom visible or move the mouse (which amounts to the same).
I had no problem on Mojave 10.14.4 - this is a bug that was introduced in 10.14.5.
See https://discussions.apple.com/thread/250382242
My Mac mini 2012, also on Mojave 10.14.5, does not have this problem.
There are several others with the same problem, where Mojave 10.14.5 and Mac mini are the common factors.
https://discussions.apple.com/thread/250368946
https://discussions.apple.com/thread/250379316
I tried contacting Apple Support. You can apparently not email them, but you can request them to call you via the support pages. That is what I did. I got an email from them confirming they got my support request (with ticket number). But even though their support pages state that they will call you back within 2 minutes, I am still waiting for their call now 3 hours later...