I have a gift for both Apple as well as the people of this thread... I compiled a list of all cars and devices (from the first 25 pages of posts in this thread) that are affected. I will first say that users report that the problem reportedly affects the following devices:
iPhone 7 with iOS 13
iPhone XR with iOS 13
iPhone 11 with iOS 13
iPhone 11 Pro with iOS 13
iPhone 11 Pro Max with iOS 13
It doesn't take a Venn Diagram to see that the only commonality here is iOS 13. The fact that iOS 13 doesn't malfunction on all devices doesn't mean the issue isn't still purely an iOS 13 issue. While the issue does certainly depend on various other factors in the "environment" of the OS, these various environmental elements are merely triggers for the malfunction, not to be confused with actual causes for malfunction. The only clear cause that can be established here is something within the iOS 13 software that malfunctions under various conditions.
Here is the list of all cars and devices that have been reported (in this thread) to have connectivity issues with iOS 13 (in the first 25 pages of the thread):
Acura RL (2009)
Acura TSX (2011)
Airpods
Amazon Echo
Anker Soundbuds Slim earphones
Audi (2017)
Beatsx headphones
Beats Studio 3
BMW 4 series
Bose headphones
Bose QC35 II headphones
Bose Soundsport earbuds
Bose sound bar
Bose speakers (soundlink and other unspecified models)
Boss BT module on motorcycle
Chevy Silverado
Chrysler 300 (2013)
Conico earbuds
Costco Phonak hearing aids
"Dodge" (2014) (jjizhere)
Dodge Dart uconnect radio (2014)
Ear buds (wireless)
Eufy bathroom scale
Ford Escape (2011)
Ford Explorer
Galaxy Buds
Garmin Forerunner
HK Onyx Studio
Hole19 (GPS Golf App)
Honda Accord
Ifrogz charisma headphones
iHome speaker
iWatch (4, and other unspecified versions)
Jaguar F-Pace (2017 and other unspecified years)
Jay Bird headphones
JBL Charge 3
JBL Clip 2
Jeep Cherokee (2017)
Kenwood DNN991HD (2014)
Kenwood head unit (older aftermarket)
Kia Sorento GT line S
Kia Soul car
Kirkland KS9 hearing aids
Land Rover Discovery Sport
Lexus RX460 (2016)
Macan (2017)
Mazda3 (2014)
Mazda CX 3
Mazda CX-5
Mercedes (RGB-UK)
Mini Cooper (2019)
Motorola H720 earpiece
Motorola H730 earpiece
Nissan Versas (2019)
Opel (unspecified vehicle model/year)
Panasonic soundbar
Phonak Marvel 90
Plantronics Backbeat Pro
Plantronics Explorer model EOTE14
Plantronics PLT Edge
Plantronics Savi 745 headset
Plantronics Voyager Edge headset
Porsche 911 (2015)
Porsche Mecan (2017)
Porsche PCM (2015)
Powerbeats
Raycon E50 earbuds
Renault Megane IV
Samsung soundbar
sound bar (fuji311)
speakers (fuji311)
Scion xB (2012)
Sony XF-1000XM3 headphones
Subaru Cross Trek (2018)
Subaru unspecified model / year
T&V Kurbis BT
T&V Laut BT
Tacoma (2016, 2019)
Taotronics earbuds
Total PA Pro
Toyota Land Cruiser (2018)
Toyota 4Runner (2014 and other unspecified years)
Toyota C-HR (2018)
Toyota Highlander (2017, 2018)
Toyota Prius 3 (2018)
Tundra 18
uconnect in car (fuji311)
UA Boom speakers
UE roll (Apsyc)
Volkswagen (nightfly72)
Volvo S60
Volvo XC60
Volvo V60
Xiaomi Roidmi 3
"all of my bluetooth devices except Apple ones don't work": several users
Unspecified bluetooth problems: too many users from this thread to list
Unspecified car: too many users to list
Unspecified headsets, headphones or speakers: several users
"Hey Siri" buggy
"bluetooth receiver" (one user)
"watch" (one user)
* some cars utilizing Uconnect software
Thankfully, there is no such thing (yet) as an iOS bluetooth pacemaker device/app.
Personal update: my Motorola H720 and H730 bluetooth devices stopped malfunctioning, not immediately after installing iOS 13.2, but eventually (not sure why). And as I type this I'm updating to iOS 13.3, so I'm assuming that this will, at the very least, not re-BREAK the bluetooth functionality. That said, I'm still leaving these two devices on the list above since they were affected by this problem for a while.
Next time some Apple phone support person tries to say this is user error, a vehicle manufacturer issue, or <cough> "coincidence" (yes, these are all real responses that Apple support people gave to people in this thread), refer them to this post, which I believe is on the 84th page of this thread. That this is an APPLE issue is way beyond statistical certainty.