I have been having this issue since the day I got my iPhone 11 Pro Max (when it came out last September). The phone usually connects fine initially, then starts cutting in and out before finally disconnecting completely. Happens on every Bluetooth device I try to use, and happens over and over again each time.
- Wireless CarPlay
- Bose Resolve+ speaker
- Bose QuietComfort 35
- AirPods Pro (on occasion)
I asked a friend who was an Apple technician and he recommended resetting all content and settings and setting up as new phone. Did that, didn't work. And I had to completely reconfigure every single setting I had on my phone. Took months to find them all. Updated the software on my BMW, didn't work. Updated the software on my Bose devices, didn't work. Talked with Apple Support over the phone. They did several remote diagnostic tests, couldn't find anything. Recommended I make an appointment with the local Apple Store. Made an appointment, spent hours in the Apple Store, "couldn't replicate the issue," agreed to swap out the iPhone itself. Came back a week later, set up new phone (couldn't restore from backup, had to reset all settings again), worked fine for a day, then right back to the same issues. Clearly it's not the hardware — I'm on #2. Clearly it's not the devices I'm connecting to — they're ALL up-to-date and ALL doing the same thing, and they ALL connect to other Apple products (my iPad, my MacBook, other iPhones) just fine.
How has this gone on for almost a year?? Clearly there are plenty of others having the same issue and Apple is aware. CarPlay is basically useless; I can't rely on taking a phone call on it because it will almost certainly disconnect in the middle of it. I can barely make it through a song without it sounding like a scratched CD. Since it's Wireless CarPlay, there isn't an option to just plug it in and go around Bluetooth. Not only is it inconvenient; I had to pay BMW $300 just to enable CarPlay when I bought it last year! P.S. it worked perfectly on my iPhone X.
With all of these issues it's awfully hard to want to keep spending $1,200 on new iPhones every time they come out.