I too have GM (Yukon XL 2017) Same problems as past 3 pages of problems - I will say (I've tried everything in these posts to no avail ) - but, allow hardware issues for sure since pro seems to be the issue, - If you have already connected to your phone at least once, then each time I get back into my truck(DON'T plug in cable yet) I go to "settings", "general", "CarPlay" and click on my "intellilink" and "forget this device.... (leave the settings on the actual stereo alone - I've tried deleting , etc - no avail) Once I've done that, THEN plug in the lightning cable (tried them all and all seem to behave the same) and so far it kicks in CarPlay each time (tried about 6 times now) - THEREFORE Apple, please fix it !! so frustrating