Just to add my voice to the chorus:
I'm disappointed that after upgrading from my mid-2012 MacBook Pro to the 2019 16" i9/5500M, my office is now a much noisier working environment. Merely plugging in my old 1080p monitor (DVI->USBC) causes the fans to audibly start spinning at a minimum of 3000 RPM.
I had grown used to having a virtually silent computer on my desk as a result of my experiences with my 2012 MBP, 2008 MBP, ... and going all the way back to my G4 powerbook. This MacBook Pro is distractingly noisy while it is doing virtually nothing other than extending my desktop to an external 1920x1200 DVI monitor.
I appreciate that this doesn't necessarily mean my Mac is broken. However I was hoping to use this computer for 5+ years, and if it's running this hot every day for 10+ hours, I can't imagine it will survive for that long.
What I find inexcusable is that Apple has already been down this road before. The 2011 MacBook Pro had this same exact problem. https://discussions.apple.com/thread/4017927 Those of us who owned a 2011 remember that after about 3 years, the GPU got cooked. Fortunately, Apple acknowledged problems with the GPU, and offered an extended warranty replacement for that particular computer.
I upgraded from the 2011 MacBook Pro to the 2012 MacBook Pro *only* because it solved the problem of the fans kicking on when I plugged in my external monitor.
How ridiculous is it that this issue has come back in 2019, when powering a 1920x1200 monitor should be easier than ever? I can't stress how important having a silent work environment is to me. I may actually end up downgrading back to my 2012, much as I'd miss all the amazing things about this 16" computer.